Hesed Committee

Hesed, commonly translated as “loving kindness,” is a lay committee of Or Haneshamah that aspires to facilitate OrH as a loving community whose members support each other in times of need.  We are inspired by the Jewish values of G’milut Hassadim (acts of loving kindness); Bikkur Holim (visiting the sick in hospital and at home); Nihum Aveylim (bereavement support); Kibbud Av v’Aym (honouring your father and mother); and v’Ahavta Le’reaha Kamoha (loving your neighbour as yourself).  We facilitate the provision of practical, short-term, non-pastoral, non-ritual support to our fellow members (full members, associate members and student members) and their immediate families; and Tishrey visitors on an as-available basis.

The Hesed Committee consists of 5 to 8 members, who co-ordinate the provision of support on a rotating basis.  The role of the co-ordinator is to:

1) respond to requests for support which can come in through the hesed@orh email (found in every newsletter, and linked to the current co-ordinator’s email), through phone calls or by word of mouth; 2) determine if the requests are within the scope of services offered, and then 3) find other community members who can provide those services.

We offer to facilitate the provision of:
Transportation
    • Rides to and from OrH events
    • Rides for other needs, such as medical appointments, shopping and other errands for sick, disabled and housebound

Respite support during illness or crisis

    • Hospital and/or home visits
    • Home support and help (provision of meals, errands, housework)
    • Accompaniment to hospital or clinic for appointments, procedures, surgery

Social Support

    • Compassionate visits and phone calls, condolence visits and phone calls

Life cycle support

    • Ensuring a minyan, and/or finding a leader, for Shiva services
    • Providing practical help during a Shiva
    • Providing practical help to families with new babies

Needs not addressed by Hesed

Hesed does not facilitate the provision of professional support, financial assistance, or activities that could reasonably be anticipated to incur personal liability.  Needs that are not supported include:

    • Medical services; medical, nutritional, or other such advice or counselling
    • Medical assistance (other than contacting 911 in the event of a medical emergency)
    • Professional psychological counselling or advice
    • Legal, accounting, bookkeeping or related services
    • Support to access government, medical, mental health or other such services

Members of the Hesed Committee rotate the coordinatorship every two months. Reach out and join by contacting hesed@orh.ca